If you've been dating someone for 5 years and they said you're going to get married but haven't made any effort yet. Would you break up with them or continue to wait?

By Gabbi . Created on Jan 06, 2019
Lifestyle 545 votes | 37 Comments
Break up

Break up

Wait it out

Wait it out

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Desert said 1 day ago
Well if you been with them that long, aren't you basically married already ???
BJ said 2 days ago
Marriage isn’t the be all end all. What’s the big deal? Save yourself some money or a wedding and do something meaningful and fun with it. If you need a piece of paper to validate you, then you will be unhappy either way
Wait it out
amduely said 2 days ago
13 years and not married. who cares its just a paper and a ring.
Break up
Margaret said 5 days ago
I was in a relationship for 16 years, then he started cheating . I left, no reason to waste anymore years with him.
Wait it out
Jason said 7 days ago
why need A rolled up piece of paper to say stay & share dept with a person loyalty love aint enough.
ive been in relationship 10yrs n never married
Wait it out
amduely said 2 days ago
exactly 13 years here and no marriage. save the money love still lives on.
Wait it out
marcmend57 said 7 days ago
At the end of the day, readiness is an individual thing. Whether or not you should wait for your guy to be ready—whether it's worth the risk—is up to you to determine, and being honest about your fears, your desires, and what’s really at risk will help.

Use your head and follow your heart, and you will figure this out!
Break up
Joseph said a week ago
5 years- s**t or get off the pot.
Wait it out
Sylvia said a week ago
With or without a piece of paper and a ring.. you are either in love and married in your hearts or not. If you are it shouldnt matter if you arent then why are you together?